Is Something Missing?
When something is missing in your life it's usually a "sense" of not being complete. You feel like you're putting in time waiting for a certain thing, experience or relationship to happen. Like some kind of empty place inside you that needs to be filled and once that happens your life will really begin.
You may also feel like you're swimming in place - treading water from day-to-day. Because when you feel incomplete you lack a sense of direction and purpose for your life. Too many people live their entire lives this way. Enduring each day with the hope that something is going to change everything...
It's easy to momentarily distract yourself from the feeling that a part of you just isn't where it's supposed to be. You can entertain yourself and shift your attention for a few hours. You can even lose yourself fantasizing about a better life. Unfortunately, distraction isn't reality so you always find yourself noticing that "feeling" again.
It's not your imagination
What you're feeling is real. You're inner self has a highly sophisticated mechanism to alert you when something is not right. You just "feel" it. Too often you don't have the words to match with what you feel. When that happens we humans have a tendency to avoid the feeling. Cause we don't like to face something we can't "pigeon hole" and immediately understand.
When something is missing inside you and life feels directionless you have to pay attention to the reality of what you're feeling. What may be missing is the feeling of connection.
Connection
If you are not "whole" - that is in balance with both your left-brain ego centric self and your right brain feeling centric self you will not feel complete. There will be a distinct emptiness and no amount of rationalization will calm or neutralize that feeling.
We live in a world and a society that worships at the alter of the left brain. We prize intellect and rationale thought processes above feeling and intuition. So it's not surprising that so many people who have been conditioned to avoid taking their "feeling side" seriously - find themselves feeling alone and disconnected.
Your left brain functions are not the source of reality. They are only a form of organizing highly filtered life experience in a manner which enables you to create a cascading hierarchy of rationale which allows your ego to use as proof that it does exist and it is real.
Now, here's the thing to think about:
If we have almost 7 billion people and individual egos on this planet - each one filtering experience and building layer upon layer of rationale to reassure itself that it's "world view" is valid - and nobody can experience "oneness" from the perspective of their ego - leaving you to feel alone - because the very nature of ego is to be alone - how can you possibly every feel "complete".
The secret lies within your right brain imagination/feeling self. What I call higher self. This is the part of you which experiences connection and completion without the necessary component of having to rationalize it. In fact, we are all connected to each other via our imagination and feeling selves...
So, if you feel something is missing in your life. Open yourself to reacquiring your imagination, feeling/intuitive "higher self" and you will begin to immediately experience the feeling of completion while simultaneously become in reality much more connected to the greater shared consciousness - which is your true self.
If you feel empty or incomplete - it's your ego. You've allowed yourself to empower it to rationalize and justify your physical, emotional and spiritual isolation. The good news is you can immediately shift your attention away from your self made prison! You are not your ego or your personality. "They" are only a construct.
The only thing that's been missing in your life is the real you.
